Wednesday, December 29, 2010

When Things Go Wrong As They Sometimes Will..

When things go wrong as they
sometimes will, When the road
you're trudging seems all up hill,
When the funds are low and the
debts are high, And you want to
smile, but you have to sigh, When
care is pressing you down a bit, Rest
if you must, but don't you quit. Life is
queer with its twists and turns, As
every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about,
When he might have won had he
stuck it out. Don't give up though the
pace seems slow--You may succeed
with another blow, Success is failure
turned inside out--The silver tint of
the clouds of doubt, And you never
can tell how close you are, It may be
near when it seems so far; So stick to
the fight when you're hardest hit--It's
when things seem worst that you
must not quit.
Yesterday is history. Tommorrow is a
mystery. And today? Today is a gift
that's why they call it the present
NOT WRITTEN BY ME ...

TRUST IS A FOUNDATION ON WHICH A RELATIONSHIP

Trust is the foundation on which a
relationship is built. If you don ’t trust
a person, howsoever you may love
him/her, your relationship will not
survive, because you have no trust
in him/her.
Trust means to believe. I trust you,
means I have no doubt in my mind
about your honesty, integrity and
credibility. No relationship can survive
without trust.
A relationship without trust can not
go any longer; sooner or later it is
going to come to an end. Guys if you
think you can not believe your
partner then its better to call off the
relationship rather than lingering
around and getting hurt in every
word she or he speaks.
Building trust in a relationship is one
of the keys to long-term happiness
and success. Trust is the most
important building block in a stable
relationship, and without it most
partnerships will dissolve over time.
No matter how much you love
someone, if you don't trust them
your relationship will be rocky.

Monday, December 13, 2010

Ma life..dont lose...

1. Hey… I know you
been jacked
I know you been wacked
That ’s a matter of fact.
So drop back before u
get smack.
2. Do it right first so you
don't have to do it again.
3.Frankly my dear - I
don't give a damn
4. Everytime I think I'm
out they pull me back in.
5. I'll be back!
6. One by air - two by
sea.
7. One in the hand is
worth two in the basket.
8. Don't count your
chickens until they hatch.
lol
BETTER STUFF
1. We come to love not
by finding a perfect
person, but by learning
to see an imperfect
person perfectly. -Sam
Keen, from To Love and
Be Loved
2.Have you ever
wondered which hurts
the most: saying
something and wishing
you had not, or saying
nothing, and wishing you
had?
3.10th grade
As I sat there in English
class, I stared at the girl
next to me. She was my
so called "best friend". I
stared at her long, silky
hair, and wished she was
mine. But she didn't
notice me like that, and I
knew it. After class, she
walked up to me and
asked me for the notes
she had missed the day
before and handed them
to her. She said "thanks"
and gave me a kiss on
the cheek. I wanted to
tell her, I want her to
know that I don't want to
be just friends, I love her
but I'm just too shy, and
I don't know why.
11th grade
The phone rang. On the
other end, it was her. She
was in tears, mumbling
on and on about how her
love had broke her heart.
She asked me to come
over because she didn't
want to be alone, so I
did. As I sat next to her
on the sofa, I stared at
her soft eyes, wishing
she was mine. After 2
hours, one Drew
Barrymore movie, and
three bags of chips, she
decided to go to sleep.
She looked at me, said
"thanks" and gave me a
kiss on the cheek. I want
to tell her, I want her to
know that I don't want to
be just friends, I love her
but I'm just too shy, and
I don't know why.
Senior year
The day before prom she
walked to my locker. My
date is sick" she said; he's
not going to go well, I
didn't have a date, and in
7th grade, we made a
promise that if neither of
us had dates, we would
go together just as "best
friends". So we did. Prom
night, after everything
was over, I was standing
at her front door step. I
stared at her as she
smiled at me and stared
at me with her crystal
eyes. I want her to be
mine, but she isn't think
of me like that, and I
know it. Then she said "I
had the best time,
thanks!" and gave me a
kiss on the cheek. I want
to tell her, I want her to
know that I don't want to
be just friends, I love her
but I'm just too shy, and
I don't know why.
Graduation Day
A day passed, then a
week, then a month.
Before I could blink, it
was graduation day. I
watched as her perfect
body floated like an
angel up on stage to get
her diploma. I wanted
her to be mine, but she
didn't notice me like that,
and I knew it. Before
everyone went home,
she came to me in her
smock and hat, and cried
as I hugged her. Then
she lifted her head from
my shoulder and said,
"you're my best friend,
thanks" and gave me a
kiss on the cheek. I want
to tell her, I want her to
know that I don't want to
be just friends, I love her
but I'm just too shy, and
I don't know why.
A Few Years Later
Now I sit in the pews of
the church. That girl is
getting married now. I
watched her say "I do"
and drive off to her new
life, married to another
man. I wanted her to be
mine, but she didn't see
me like that, and I knew
it. But before she drove
away, she came to me
and said "you came!".
She said "thanks" and
kissed me on the cheek. I
want to tell her, I want
her to know that I don't
want to be just friends, I
love her but I'm just too
shy, and I don't know
why.
Funeral
Years passed, I looked
down at the coffin of a
girl who used to be my
"best friend". At the
service, they read a
diary entry she had
wrote in her high school
years. This is what it
read: I stare at him
wishing he was mine, but
he doesn't notice me like
that, and I know it. I
want to tell him, I want
him to know that I don't
want to be just friends, I
love him but I'm just too
shy, and I don't know
why. I wish he would tell
me he loved me! `I wish
I did too...` I thought to
my self, and I cried.
4. Never Give anything
you can't afford to lose. -
tony bailey
5. Someday your prince/
princess charming will
come. Mine just took a
wrong turn, got lost, and
is too stubborn to ask for
directions.
6. In the end, it's not
going to matter how
many breaths you took,
but how many moments
took your breath away.
7. When people say "life
is short". What the hell???
Life is the longest damn
thing anyone ever
does!!! What can you do
thats longer?
8. When people say "Oh
you just want to have
your cake and eat it too".
Damn Right! What good
is cake if you can't eat it?
9. People who are willing
to get off their a** to
search the entire room
for the TV remote
because they refuse to
walk to the TV and
change the channel
manually.
10. People who point at
their wrist asking for the
time... I know where my
watch is pal, where the
hell is yours? Do I point
at my crotch when I ask
where the toilet is?

Ma life..dont lose...

1. Hey… I know you
been jacked
I know you been wacked
That ’s a matter of fact.
So drop back before u
get smack.
2. Do it right first so you
don't have to do it again.
3.Frankly my dear - I
don't give a damn
4. Everytime I think I'm
out they pull me back in.
5. I'll be back!
6. One by air - two by
sea.
7. One in the hand is
worth two in the basket.
8. Don't count your
chickens until they hatch.
lol
BETTER STUFF
1. We come to love not
by finding a perfect
person, but by learning
to see an imperfect
person perfectly. -Sam
Keen, from To Love and
Be Loved
2.Have you ever
wondered which hurts
the most: saying
something and wishing
you had not, or saying
nothing, and wishing you
had?
3.10th grade
As I sat there in English
class, I stared at the girl
next to me. She was my
so called "best friend". I
stared at her long, silky
hair, and wished she was
mine. But she didn't
notice me like that, and I
knew it. After class, she
walked up to me and
asked me for the notes
she had missed the day
before and handed them
to her. She said "thanks"
and gave me a kiss on
the cheek. I wanted to
tell her, I want her to
know that I don't want to
be just friends, I love her
but I'm just too shy, and
I don't know why.
11th grade
The phone rang. On the
other end, it was her. She
was in tears, mumbling
on and on about how her
love had broke her heart.
She asked me to come
over because she didn't
want to be alone, so I
did. As I sat next to her
on the sofa, I stared at
her soft eyes, wishing
she was mine. After 2
hours, one Drew
Barrymore movie, and
three bags of chips, she
decided to go to sleep.
She looked at me, said
"thanks" and gave me a
kiss on the cheek. I want
to tell her, I want her to
know that I don't want to
be just friends, I love her
but I'm just too shy, and
I don't know why.
Senior year
The day before prom she
walked to my locker. My
date is sick" she said; he's
not going to go well, I
didn't have a date, and in
7th grade, we made a
promise that if neither of
us had dates, we would
go together just as "best
friends". So we did. Prom
night, after everything
was over, I was standing
at her front door step. I
stared at her as she
smiled at me and stared
at me with her crystal
eyes. I want her to be
mine, but she isn't think
of me like that, and I
know it. Then she said "I
had the best time,
thanks!" and gave me a
kiss on the cheek. I want
to tell her, I want her to
know that I don't want to
be just friends, I love her
but I'm just too shy, and
I don't know why.
Graduation Day
A day passed, then a
week, then a month.
Before I could blink, it
was graduation day. I
watched as her perfect
body floated like an
angel up on stage to get
her diploma. I wanted
her to be mine, but she
didn't notice me like that,
and I knew it. Before
everyone went home,
she came to me in her
smock and hat, and cried
as I hugged her. Then
she lifted her head from
my shoulder and said,
"you're my best friend,
thanks" and gave me a
kiss on the cheek. I want
to tell her, I want her to
know that I don't want to
be just friends, I love her
but I'm just too shy, and
I don't know why.
A Few Years Later
Now I sit in the pews of
the church. That girl is
getting married now. I
watched her say "I do"
and drive off to her new
life, married to another
man. I wanted her to be
mine, but she didn't see
me like that, and I knew
it. But before she drove
away, she came to me
and said "you came!".
She said "thanks" and
kissed me on the cheek. I
want to tell her, I want
her to know that I don't
want to be just friends, I
love her but I'm just too
shy, and I don't know
why.
Funeral
Years passed, I looked
down at the coffin of a
girl who used to be my
"best friend". At the
service, they read a
diary entry she had
wrote in her high school
years. This is what it
read: I stare at him
wishing he was mine, but
he doesn't notice me like
that, and I know it. I
want to tell him, I want
him to know that I don't
want to be just friends, I
love him but I'm just too
shy, and I don't know
why. I wish he would tell
me he loved me! `I wish
I did too...` I thought to
my self, and I cried.
4. Never Give anything
you can't afford to lose. -
tony bailey
5. Someday your prince/
princess charming will
come. Mine just took a
wrong turn, got lost, and
is too stubborn to ask for
directions.
6. In the end, it's not
going to matter how
many breaths you took,
but how many moments
took your breath away.
7. When people say "life
is short". What the hell???
Life is the longest damn
thing anyone ever
does!!! What can you do
thats longer?
8. When people say "Oh
you just want to have
your cake and eat it too".
Damn Right! What good
is cake if you can't eat it?
9. People who are willing
to get off their a** to
search the entire room
for the TV remote
because they refuse to
walk to the TV and
change the channel
manually.
10. People who point at
their wrist asking for the
time... I know where my
watch is pal, where the
hell is yours? Do I point
at my crotch when I ask
where the toilet is?

Friday, August 20, 2010

Trueally u want 2 knwwww mee

Rules: You must list ten different
personal things about you and then
tag ten people.
Those ten people will do the same.
Don't forget to tag the person who
tagged you.
1. If you really knew me... then you
would know that i bruise so easly
that i make bananas look tough.
2. If you really knew me... you
would know that i dont really trust
anyone.
3. If you really knew me... you
would know that the reason i dont
talk to people is because rejection
scares the shit out of me.
4. If you really knew me... you
would know that cheese makes me
gag.
5. If you really knew me... you
would know that everytime i drive
with other people in the car, i just
assume the worst will happen.
6. If you really knew me... you
would know that if you've ever
been my friend before, you could
come up to me 10 years later and i'll
still think we're like bffs. (:
7. If you really knew me... you
would know that i've never actually
touched drugs in my life.
8. If you really knew me... you
would know that im a big try hard
photographer.
9. If you really knew me... you
would know i use to be way into
hopless romatic novels, okay i
admit, im still alittle stuck on them.
<3
10. If you really knew me... you
would know the harder you push
me the more i push you away.

Monday, August 9, 2010

TRUE FRIENDSHIP...

True Friendship
Ever wondered what is the real
essence of the saying "A Friend in
Need is a Friend Indeed"? People
talk about the true value of
friendship without knowing what it
stands for. True friendship is when
there are no formalities; when the
person you are talking about is
counted as family; when the relation
you share reaches a stage that
even if you don't correspond for
sometime, your relationship remains
intact. Best friends need not meet
up often to make sure that the
friendship remains constant. The
trust between best friends is such
that if one friend falls in trouble, the
other will not think twice to help.
If the bond between friends is
strong, true friends can endure even
long distances. They find a way of
being in touch despite busy
schedules. True friendship never
fades away; in fact it grows better
with time. True friends don't need a
posh place to hang out. Their most
precious hideout is each others'
rooms! True friendship thrives on
trust, inspiration and comfort. Best
friends come to know when the
other person is in trouble, merely by
listening to their "Hello" over the
phone.
True friends don't desert each other
when there is trouble. They face it
together and support each other
even if it hurts the other individual's
interest. Best friends don't analyze
each other; they don't have to.
They accept each other with their
positive and negative qualities.
Nothing is hidden between true
friends; they know each other's
strengths and weaknesses. Best
friends don't stand any outsider
commenting or criticizing their
friendship and they can put up a
very firm resistance if anyone does
so.
True friends are not opportunists.
They don't help because they have
something to gain out of it. True
friendship is selfless. Best friends
support even when the whole world
opposes you. It is not easy getting
true friends and if you have even
one true friend, consider yourself
blessed. In this world of cynics and
back stabbers, there are still some
people who are worth being friends

Saturday, August 7, 2010

I love my India....

our
motherland is the most precious
jewel....
And we have it a s our duty to
protect it...polish it...n preserve it..
So dat it shines..forever n we can be
proud of being a part of shining
INDIA.
!!Jai Hind!!

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Ship Company

Shipping Corporation of India
Great Eastern shipping
Varun Shipping
Wilco Ship Management &
Transport Pvt. ltd.
Mobil Shipping Co. Ltd.
Chevron Manning Services ltd.
Mitsui OSK lines
Barber Ship Management ltd.
Australia
Ravenscroft Shipping Inc.
Searland Ship Mgmt. Ltd. Austria
Orinoco Marine Consultancy Pvt. ltd.
Nortrans Pvt. ltd.
Anglo Eastern Shipping Mgmt. ltd.
Neptune Orient Lines Pvt.
Chellaram Shipping Pvt. ltd.
V-Ships Inc

SET A GOAL...

As an ambitious person, when you
started your present career, you
probably set certain personal goals
for yourself; goals you hoped to
achieve. It’s also possible you gave
yourself a certain time limit in
which to achieve these goals. Have
you managed to achieve all these
goals or are you disappointed
you've not been able to achieve
the success in your career that you
wanted?
If you haven't been as successful
as you hoped you would be, it's a
good idea to read the biographies
of famous personalities who
achieved exceptional success in
their careers and made a great
deal of money. Not only will you
find it very interesting and
informative, you'll also learn a
great deal that will help you in your
own career. There’s a lot to be
learnt from finding out more about
the lives of successful people who
achieved fame and distinction in
areas such business, sport, music,
entertainment, writing and other
fields. You'll find it fascinating to
discover how they were able to
achieve success in spite of having
to deal with a tremendous amount
of competition.
FAMOUS PEOPLE IN BUSINESS
If you are involved in business of
any kind, you'll learn a lot from
reading biographies of successful
people like Richard Branson who
started the Virgin group of
companies; Alan Sugar who began
life selling aerials from his car and
ended up as the founder of
Amstrad; Sam Walton of Walmark,
Jeff Bozos’ of Amazon; Calvin Klein,
Michael Dell of Dell Computer,
Oprah Winfrey, Martha Stewart, the
Chinese entrepreneur Li Ning, the
winner of three gymnastic gold
medals who decided to go into
business and started a sporting
goods empire, and individuals like
Mike Parsons, who made a success
of a medical insurance company,
Barchester Healthcare, providing
insurance for elderly people against
the advice of many.
FAMOUS SPORT STARTS
It's also important to read about
people who made their mark in
other areas bedsides business. Find
out more about sport stars who
achieved success in their field and
earned fortunes in the process.
Read about tennis stars like Andre
Aggasi, his wife Steffi Graf, Venus
Williams, Boris Bekker. You'll also
find the biographies of golf legends
like Arnold Palmer, Jack Nicklaus,
Gary Player not only interesting but
filled with important ideas how to
cope with set-backs in life.
THESE SUCCESSFUL INDIVIDUALS
HAD A NUMBER OF THINGS IN
COMMON
When you read about famous
people who achieved success in a
variety of different careers you'll
discover some interesting facts.
Although they operated in such a
wide range of different field, these
successful people all had a number
of things in common. One feature
common to all of them was that
they all set very ambitious goals
for themselves when they started
their careers. They focused on
these goals, and never lost sight of
them throughout their careers. This
is something that won't surprise
you, because it's also what you
have done. But what you will find
very interesting is the fact that
most of these successful people
made use of very unusual methods
to achieve their goals.
MANY SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE USED
HIGHLY ORIGINAL,
UNCONVENTIONAL METHODS
When you read their biographies
carefully you'll discover that many
of these successful people used
unconventional, original methods
that were completely different to
those used by others. They were
creative, imaginative and
innovative in the way they
approached problems. They had
the courage to be different - and it
worked for them!
There’s an important lesson to be
learnt from these successful
individuals. When you examine,
very carefully and as objectively as
you can, the methods you've been
using in your own career, you may
be surprised to find that there's
nothing unique or distinctive about
the methods and techniques you
are using. The path along which
you have been traveling could
have been the same as hundreds
of your competitors and rivals.
Perhaps this explains why you
have not been as successful as you
hoped you would be, in spite of
your determination to succeed,
your persistence and all your hard
work.
To achieve success and stand out
from the crowd, you have to be
more original, more distinctive;
more creative in your thinking than
others. This applies to whatever
field you happen to be involved in.
It applies to every aspect of
business, manufacturing,
marketing; every form of artistic
expression, creative writing, music,
theatre, sport. In fact every field in
which people strives to achieve
excellence and be rewarded for
their achievements.
To achieve the ambitious goals you
have set for yourself, it may be
necessary for you to change
direction and follow a far more
creative, original path. How can this
be done? By using your creative
imagination to devise innovative,
resourceful, new ideas. There are
techniques you can use to develop
your creative imagination - a vital,
untapped source of power buried in
your subconscious.
Creative imagination is not an
inherited natural gift that only a
gifted few are fortunate to possess.
It's a skill that can be nurtured and
developed.
Tags : freshersworld, goal setting
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A Creative Idea Can Change Your
Life
July 16,
2010 Category : Jobs &
Careers
Are you in the search for a creative
and passionate career? Well, then
pursue your dreams and do what
you ’re best at. Creative Jobs can
help you earn more.
Some of the most creative careers
include fashion designing,
architecture and interior designing,
landscaping, music, creative writing
or freelance writing, graphic
designing, or careers in personal
aesthetics such as hair care or
make up artistry. There are other
options as well and some of these
include professions in the visual and
media arts, culinary arts or
performing and literary arts.
For instance wedding planners and
event managers have an exciting
option lined up for them. Other
than helping the side of the groom
and the bride to organize the
wedding and ensure that
everything is flawless, the event
manager coordinates with the
different people who are involved
in the wedding such as those who
have been appointed to supply the
flowers, cake, food, dresses, gowns,
choir and the list goes on.
One thing that you need to
remember is that you cannot get
started in a creative career just like
that. What you need for the
purpose is to have a flair for it and
the competence to handle it. Other
than that, main factors that are
responsible for the choice of a
creative career are:
* Personal choice
* Aptitude
* Professional criteria
* Financial feasibility
What are your career Goals?
Please comment below.
Tags : freshersworld, career, goal
setting, idea
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Self-Motivation: The biggest
Thing For Your Success
July 14,
2010 Category : Miscellaneous
Self-Motivation
In life there are
many things that can motivate us
and give the pep we need to keep
going. Religious beliefs, music,
talking to someone who is very
positive minded, watching a film
with a positive outcome, reading
books on positivity... there are
many things we could use. But why
do some things work for others but
do not work for us? Well the
answer lies in the belief system we
have built up over the years. Our
beliefs are built from years of
indoctrination of one kind or
another. Our parents put beliefs
into our heads, then we are taught
how to think at school and then we
are strongly influenced by the
television, radio and or books and
magazines.
These beliefs can be helpful or
harmful to our goals in life. If you
were raised by someone who felt
that we all can only occupy one
position in life and there is no
reason to try and push against the
position you were born into by
bettering yourself, then that belief
is going to have very damaging
impact on your life. It is hard to
believe that a parent would tell this
to their child but the reason is not
always to be unkind or to harm
them in some way. It is often to
protect them from areas of
knowledge or parts of the world
that the parent simply does not
understand and therefore harbors
fears for their children as result.
Religion for example has a strong
theme about humility that people
take on to varying degrees. In
most religious belief systems you
are encouraged not to toot your
own horn and certain religious
sectors frown upon even adorning
the body in any way that might
bring 'undue' attention to someone.
Your motivation to do better would
be always impacted by this belief
that your parent has helped to
cement into your brain. So
ultimately, you may indeed listen
to a motivational CD and be moved
by it, or read book and be moved
by the exciting promise of better,
or hear a very motivational
speaker who makes an impression
upon you but given enough time
your belief system that works
against self elevation would kick in
and your motivational pull would
be killed.
Therefore your limiting, hindering
belief systems must be tackled first
if one is to be able to take flight
and make progress in a meaningful
way. Do you need help with this
topic? The best help is usually to
introduce into your life people who
will fully support you and bring out
only the best in you.
One of those people could be me!
I'm up for it! - Are you? Pop round
to my online home at
coachrosie.com and soak up clear
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yourself
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INTERVIEW GUIDE
July 01,
2010 Category : Jobs &
Careers
INTERVIEW QUESTIONS
What Job Interview QuestionShould
You Ask?
Be prepared to ask the right job
interview question during your
interview!
One of the easiest ways to
interview success is to prepare a list
of good interview questions to ask
the interviewer.asking thoughtful
and well-researched questions
during your job interview makes a
great impression.You demonstrate
your interest, initiative and
strategic understanding of the
position and the company.
Take advantage of the opportunity
to ask focused job interview
questions.Show that you are better
prepared than the other
candidates, use your questions to
highlight your suitability for the
job.Don't rely on the interviewer to
ask you the "right" interview
questions, take control of the
discussion by asking the job
interview question that you have
researched and prepared.Focus
rather on aspects such as role
expectations, job
priorities,departmental and
organizationalstrategy and
needs,management style and
expectations. Ask interview
questions that show how hard you
have thought about the position
and the company. Use your
research to understand as much as
possible about the organization and
its situation, the position and its
priorities.
Good tips for asking a job interview
question include:
* Ask open-ended questions.Closed
questions that require just a "yes"
or "no" response contribute little to
the flow of the interview and
provide minimal information
* Avoid interrupting the
interviewer,make sure you are at
an appropriate point for your
question
* Only ask questions that are
relevant to the job, department,
management and organization.
* Interview questions that appear
to be challenging the interviewer or
that require knowledge or
information that the interviewer is
unlikely to have create an
uncomfortable atmosphere and
impact negatively on attempts at
establishing rapport
Go through the recommended
interview questions to ask about
the job itself,the management,the
organization and,very
importantly,what questions not to
ask during the interview!Prepare
your own list of about ten
questions,review the list a number
of times before your job interview
and be prepared to impress!
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Become Better Leader
May 07,
2010 Category : Jobs &
Careers
Become a Better Leader
Some people have leadership
qualities that just seem to come
naturally. They are good with
people, good at taking charge and
they have an authority that others
just seem to respect. There are
other people who may not initially
seem to have the characteristics
that define leadership. However,
anyone can be an effective leader
if the situation calls for it. And even
the best leaders can work on
becoming better leaders.
1-Communicate with the people
you are working with. Nobody
wants to be under the leadership of
someone they feel they can ’t
communicate with, or someone
that can ’t relate to them. That type
of relationship can cause others to
feel somewhat threatened, angry
or disgusted, making them
rebellious and less receptive to the
things you are trying to convey to
them. Work on trying to build
positive relationships with the
people who are under your
leadership. Positive relationships
usually result in a mutual respect
between both parties
2-Have an open mind. Don’t shut
out the thoughts and ideas of other
people just because you are in
charge. Consider different points of
view, and don ’t be afraid or too
haughty to take suggestions from
others. Evaluate and decide based
on what is best for a given
situation. Sometimes a person may
have a genuinely good idea, one
that is better than yours. A good
leader has the humility to accept
that and effectively carry out a
plan that is the best for the people
or the project he is in charge of.
3-Set boundaries. Although you
want to have positive relationships
with others, and you want to be
accepting to different points of
view, there will be times where a
decision must be made, and it is
your duty to make it. Don’t be
afraid to set boundaries or make
decisions that others will disagree
with. It is unlikely that everyone
will agree with every decision that
you make. However, if you have
considered all options and feel that
you have made the decision that
will result in the best outcome, stick
with it

Sunday, August 1, 2010

The White Knight

The White Knight, Eric
Nicol
The White Knight is an allegorical
story based on the concept of the
medieval role of the white knights,
who represent evil.
The story deals with the themes of
self-realisation and the concept of
good and bad.
A knight in this story looks at his
reflection in the mirror and sees a
white knight. Since he feels he is the
white knight, he believes it is his
duty to protect virtue, honour and
justice. He dedicated his life to
searching for the evil black knight.
In pursuit of the black knight, he
commits many crimes; thus
displaying all the negative qualities
of the black knight on himself. He is
able to realise his errors only after
having killed a white knight, who
questions him in agony: ‘Is evil then
triumphant?’
From then on, he transforms into a
truly good person and the people
call him The Good White Knight. He
realises that appearance does not
make a person. He discovers for
himself the true understanding of
right and wrong.
***** ***** *****
What is an allegory?
An allegory is a simple story such as
a fable or parable that serves to
teach a moral lesson. It can be read
on two levels: literal, the other
symbolic. The symbolic meaning is
different from the surface or literal
meaning.

Saturday, July 31, 2010

Raining Days i love...Xxx

iTs rainy season
back with those
moment can't stop
thinkin of eva bring
a tears in mah
eyes with a
smile..weneva its
raining the drops
wich fell on yow
face is not marely
just drops of rain
water..dey r mah
tears wich still
says"um still missing u...!!!!"

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Remember Mee...

Leave one memory that you and I
had together. It doesn't matter if
you knew me a little or a lot,
anything you remember! Don't send
a message, leave a comment on
here. Next, re-post this in your notes
and see how many people leave a
memory about you. It's actually
pretty cool (and funny) to see the
responses.

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

True Frnd..

A friend is one to whom one may
pour out all the contents of one ’s
heart, chaff and grain together,
knowing that the gentlest of hands
will take and sift it, keep what is
worth keeping and with a breath of
kindness blow the rest away.

Monday, July 26, 2010

I love indian army...

Did y’all know
today is “Kargil Vijay Diwas â
€œmarking the Indian victory in the
Kargil war back in 1999. Let’s
take a moment to remember all the
Kargil martyrs. I Love my country
sooooo much. Big kisssss to INDIA...

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Enjoy wid Mansoon

it's heavy raining here
so enjoy very much
with pizzzaa.........

Feel v love

want to love someone whose heart
has been broken,
so that he knows exactly how it
feels and won't break mine.
I saw him for the first time. His
eyes,
reflection of his truth; filled with
emotions yet completely alive. I
was touched by his innocence
and
his extreme presence. I kept
looking
at his fingers; nails that were
uncut,
filthy and full of dirt. I could
sense
how he was completely
engrossed
in counting the coins in his palms.
With every coin that he counted,
his
smile would widen.
‘Can you please let me sit here?’
he
asked in his innocent voice.
A boy who seemed around 13
year
old hopped into the train from
the
restricted side of the train station.
Managing some space at the
edge
near the train door, he sat down.
The trains were crowded.
‘ Who is sitting there?’ someone
screamed from behind.
He looked up and what he could
see
were my eyes on him. He spoke
without really knowing who
screamed,
‘Can you please let me sit for a
while? I will stand before the
next
station comes. ’
‘Please take care,’ I asked the
boy
as he sat at the brim of the
compartment ’s door.
‘Don’t worry. I will not fall. Now
it’s a
habbit!’
I gently smiled looking at him.
He started counting the coins
ones
again.
‘ So, where do you live?’
‘mmmm actually I don’t know
the
address but I certainly know the
destination; I know the way. I
live
on the road. And all roads seems
alike. Only the way is different. ’
The play had already begun for
me
and I was enjoying his presence
more and more.
‘ Do you know,’ he looked up and
then he looked at his coins and
said,
‘ For the first time, I could make
100
rupees in a day.’ He gasped with
relief.
I was observing him, observing
every little act that he played
live in
front of me.
‘ I am out since morning today,
sweeping trains and I guess I
cleaned almost 8 trains today.’
‘You must be tired?’ I asked
gently.
‘ Yes, I was tired little while ago
until
I unloaded my pockets and
loaded
my mind with each coin that I
counted. I am so happy. ’
I smiled at every word that he
spoke; very gently and
truthfully.
‘ So, do you go to school?’
‘Well, I studied till fourth grade
and
then I dropped out of the school.’
‘My father died in a train accident
while I was 8. And my mother is
dying out of TB. So, I left studies
and
I did not know what to do?
However, since then I sweep in
the
trains from the same shirt that I
am
wearing right now and earn a
little
bit this way. ’
I was getting pulled in the play of
life. Completely mesmerised by
his
story yet could clearly see a
sense
of spiritual detachment in his
eyes.
‘ So, what is your dream?’ I asked
him.
There was a long pause before
he
answered that,
‘ Well, about the dream! Once I’d
dreamt to collect 100rupees in a
day, which got fulfilled today !’
He
said this and looked outside
happily
at the tracks which seemed to be
moving constantly. Constantly
with
the train. It is like the tracks are
always there however its
existence
surfaces only with the moving
train
on it.
I was realising that beneath
every
change, there is one thing that
keeps the change alive, that
which is
constant, that which brings the
change into life and that is
nothing
else than our own being; our
sheer
existence.
‘ Is there a note-book seller in this
compartment? I could hear his
voice, ’ he asked me to buy a
book
since I was standing behind him
and
the crowd seemed huge and
unmoved.
Great to have vendor in the
locals!
A sort of connection was building
up
between me and that little boy.
May
be he representing some part of
me.
Our world is our own creation, our
own manifestation. The play was
teaching me a lot. The train ride
was
turning more interesting.
I gave the book in his hands and
he
certainly did read my eyes.
‘ Oh, this book is not for me but
for
my mother. My mother always
dreamt to have written her
name
with my hands. She always
wanted
to at least learn to write her
name.
She wanted me to teach her that.
Although I studied till fourth
grade,
but it has taught me to do
something great- to write my
mother ’s name.’
‘So today, we shall party. I will
teach
her to write her name. I will
teach
her to write my name, to write
my
father ’s name. She would be
very
happy.’
‘Before she dies, I wish to make
her
life. Make her life worth living
even
though it may be just for a
moment,
just for a second. ’
I was stuck. Stuck with his voice
in
my ears. I could sense nothing
but
the crawling goose-bumps in me.
Everything around me seemed
to
cease, seemed invisible. All the
characters in my mind froze.
Characters that chattered,
characters
that played games. I was
freezing. I
was seeing no play but I was
being
a play. The play of mind was
clearing and that of life was that
which I was experiencing.
Silence broken with a huge push
of
crowd. We were approaching the
station. The little boy made
efforts
to get up while I held his book in
my
hand.
‘ Now, I will carry this book
everyday. Each day, I will teach
at
least one person who is like my
mother to write their names.
Help
them live their dream even for a
moment. And each day I will
keep
filling this book. ’
‘May be this will give me an
encouragement to wake up in
the
morning to come and sweep in
the
trains. ’
I stood speechless; mesmerised.
The
train reached at the station. I
kept
looking at him and tears melted
at
the eyelids.
It was his last look into my eyes
before I could break down
completely-
‘ This train is going very far but I
have reached my station. Good-
Bye !’
The tears rolled. A silent
accolades
from my heart. Curtains down.
And the play begins now …..
Come…The life’s auditorium is
empty! Fill the show!
… .sadiyaa…
*The little boy was someone who
I
met in the locals of Mumbai.
Realised that angels don ’t
always
fly, they do travel in trains!